This is long about sportsmanship from my good referee Wildcat friend and fan

I am proud to say that Lighthouse of www.wildcatnation.net is a friend of mine. I first read his article in today's www.silkroadsand siamesesmiles.com from Afghanistan. That URL belongs to Dawood Kahn or Dave Kaelin another much respected friend through WCN. Please read. It is well worth any sportsman's time.





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#1 01-22-2010, 01:27 AM

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Sportsmanship, What Happened? Very long read.



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Who’s at Fault?



Webster describes sportsmanship as, “a fairness, courtesy, being a cheerful loser etc.” How far have we come from the time in our country when that was a meaningful description? I’m ashamed to say, too far. Who’s to blame? Again I’m ashamed to admit, me, you, parents, coaches, administrators, rules makers, officials, in other words, we are all guilty in one way or the other.



We in Kentucky are very fortunate to have many outstanding athletes at all levels who compete each year in a multitude of sports on the gridirons, fields and courts. These student athletes are coached by a dedicated group of professionals and are supported by thousands of parents and fans. However, the Kentucky High School Athletic Association reports that approximately 700 players and coaches are ejected from high school contests each year due to unsportsmanlike conduct. (The breakdown is 80% athletes, 20% coaches. No statistics are kept on fan ejections, which could easily surpass those of players and coaches). When you add in the NCAA in all sports and levels, it’s mind boggling.



During my nearly 30 years of officiating basketball, football, baseball, and softball, I have seen the decline in sportsmanship in all sports at all levels. I have had the privilege of officiating every level, especially basketball, from small children to the old ABA professional level. I felt blessed to officiate every game, but have personally experienced several upsetting situations. One was at a peewee football game; a dad ran out of the stands and yelled at his son that he would whip him if this much bigger kid knocked him down again. At a DII basketball game; police had to be called to control a coach who the next day was fired because of his behavior. I had to remove a scorekeeper and have fans escorted out. We had to stop a college basketball game because four teenagers were using thick rubber bands to shoot nails at the opposing players. Finally they were arrested. And I could go on and on. I feel very fortunate to have only ejected a few players or coaches.



As you can imagine, I’ve endured a lot of verbal abuse. I guess I’ve heard every vulgar name you can think of. I once had a school administrator threaten me on my way to the locker room at halftime. One of my friends received a very nasty letter, anonymously of course. One official was shot at with a BB gun, they missed. Some of this stuff you expect, but some of it, certainly not. One fact I’m particularly ashamed of, Christian schools are among the worst. I heard this comment from a High School official, “Those Christians, they pray before the game and then all hell breaks loose.” And I have to admit it’s true because I witnessed it myself.



I strongly believe the underlying problem is the lack of respect that individuals have for each other and for authority in our society. Many people feel they can say whatever they want to whomever they want. This particularly seems to apply to individuals in positions of authority. All you have to do is ask school teachers, policemen, even parents. And, the problem is widespread.



We recently witnessed trash talking used to get in the heads of opposing players, and it seemed to be supported by the coach. We hear vulgar chants from fans, and they are not all students, but it is never addressed by school administrators. Hence, a message of support. This language is allowed in the classroom, so why not in the gym. Our students learn in the gym just like they do in a science lab. This lack of respect detracts from the otherwise positive benefits derived from sports participation.



I challenge everyone associated with athletics to make good sportsmanship a priority. Set a positive example to reinforce these critically important values associated with interscholastic sports participation. I propose the following specific measures to improve sportsmanship and the student athlete experience.



ATHLETES

Just play the game! Concentrate on your performance, not on putting down your opponent. Whether you’re a professional or in middle school, realize you are a role model, and you have someone looking up to you, so set a good example.



COACHES

Hold your players accountable for their conduct. Remember, you control your players’ most precious commodity-playing time. Don’t allow your players to engage in unsportsmanlike behavior. Set the proper example with your own conduct. Your players will take their lead from how you behave. Never allow your players to abuse opponents under any circumstances. Never berate the officials. If you disagree with a call, ask (in a gentlemanly manner) for an explanation of what the official saw. If you feel you can “bait” an official, simply scratch him, because the other coach probably feels the same way. If you’re both right, that official has no business on the court anyway.



ADMINISTRATORS

Create an atmosphere at your athletic venues where good sportsmanship is expected. Don’t allow your students to engage in vulgar chants or demean the other team. Have zero tolerance for any act that is not in the interest of good sportsmanship. Use athletic contests as an opportunity to teach positive values. Control your coaches, after all, they are teachers of young adults and you would never allow a science professor to act like some coaches do.



FANS

A spectator’s ticket for admission must be considered an opportunity to watch the performance of highly impressionable athletes from children thru college and even into adults. It’s not a license to abuse coaches, players, officials or other fans. Fans must understand that attending a game is a privilege and should be treated as such. Fans should focus on positively encourage their teams and not engage in demeaning conduct toward opponents. Fans need to understand they are subject to removal from the premises if they exhibit inappropriate behavior. Officials are going to make bad calls, players are going to make mistakes, and coaches are not always going to play the players fans think they should play.



OFFICIALS

We must shoulder some of the blame for the deterioration of sportsmanship. When we fail to address unsportsmanlike actions by coaches and players, we do a disservice to the game. We must have the courage and conviction to address those situations. When it comes to dealing with unsportsmanlike acts, we have broad discretion in our responses, from verbal warnings to ejections. Remember, enforcing rules related to poor sportsmanship, and all rules, is our job. The game is there for you, you are not there for the game. You know the rule for walking so, call it whether it happens in the paint or 30 feet out. It does have an effect on the game. If you allow a coach to “bait or work” you and you turn a deaf ear because you’re worried about your rating, please for the betterment of the game, turn in your stripes!



Everyone associated with athletics must take responsibility for improving sportsmanship. From player to coach to official, we are all equal partners in promoting the positive values inherent to interscholastic participation. No matter what your role is in the game, do YOUR part to support good sportsmanship.





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I first read your tremendously honest and to-the-point-of-sportsmanship article on Dave's www.silkroadsandsiamesesmiles.com blog just a few minutes ago, Lighthouse. I came to the forum to post it and was happy to see that you already had.



I tutor math at a Columbus State Community College and, to the contrary, I am amazed at the courtesy of the students towards the faculty and towards each other. I know this isn't typical behavior in today's society, and particularly not among our young. The students in our Developmental Education Department are mostly from black families and many are from African nations. The common thing among them is that many are paying for an education and are earnestly seeking and working towards their goals.



I agree with all of your points, Steve and I respect you for refereeing. Personally, I would much rather play a sport than referee and I played amateur softball for over sixty years. The guys who love sports and referee, particularly basketball, forever have my gratitude and respect, although at times I am sure some didn't think so.



I consider it a distinct pleasure to know Steve, (Lighthouse) Curly's childhood friend, and a fellow WCN poster. We are so lucky to be in the company of Kentucky Wildcat fans and wildcatnation posters.



You, sir, are a great American and citizen of this world!



SamKat


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Thanks sweet sister, Sharon. You know how we are continually praying for the Cor boy!




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ear Family and Friends,



Cory has had a good three days with the pressures in his brain remaining low. They did a brain scan this morning and the doctor said that it looked good and that they would try to take out the bolt and let him come out of his coma tomorrow. We pray that this will happen and that God will let him return to us! I know all of you have gone through this heartache with us and knowing that we have so many people that care for us and our Cor Boy means so very much!!! I'll let you know Tuesday evening what happens. Thanks everyone.



Love,

Sharon

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By Terry Morris, Staff Writer Updated 5:24 PM Monday, January 25, 2010

BEAVERCREEK — It’s been 10 days since he spoke with his 17-year-old son Cory, but Mick Lundy said Monday, Jan. 25, “has been a good day.”



Critically injured in a traffic accident Jan. 15, the Beavercreek High School junior was still in a coma at Miami Valley Hospital, but his condition was upgraded from critical to serious.



“A CT scan done this morning turned up no bad news. We’re taking that as good news,” said Lundy, who said his son “has been moving his arms and legs with a purpose. We can’t wait to see him open his eyes. We’re hoping for a full recovery.”



Cory is a junior at Beavercreek High School, where he plays wide receiver on the football team and the outfield for the baseball team.



He was alone in a pickup truck when he apparently lost control and drove off Shakertown Road west of U.S. 35, hitting a guardrail.



He has been in a coma since surgeries to remove bone fragments from his brain and to repair lacerations in his stomach and intestines.



On Tuesday , Lundy said doctors plan to remove a “bolt” monitoring his son’s brain pressure. “That’s also good news. He’s been stable since 11 p.m. on Thursday, Jan. 21. They always say that with a brain injury the most important time is the first 72 hours. The next is the first 10 days. Now we’re past that.”



Friends of Cory and his family have posted signs of support in several locations. One at U.S. 35 and Fairfield Road on Monday urged, “Get well soon, Cory.” Another offered prayers for his recovery.



“The support from the Beavercreek community has been tremendous,” said Lundy, a State Farm insurance agent in the city. “I think it’s going to do him a lot of good when he finds out how many people care about him.”



He added that only family members are permitted to visit Cory in the hospital for the time being.

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